Wednesday, August 25, 2010

It’s raining in Delhi. Has global warming caught up?

It’s finally raining in Delhi. After being here for almost 10 years one of the few things I liked about Delhi was its lack of rains. Not to get me wrong it’s not that I hate rains on the contrary being a long time Mumbaikar I actually love the rains. But staying 10 years in a city where rain is a novelty has actually reset my expectations from the rain gods. I found a renewed sense of freedom to be able to move around the city almost year-long without the horrors that heavy rains almost always brought about in Mumbai. Whilst June to August spells monsoons south of Maharashtra, the same period in Delhi used to be warm and sunny. Slowly I started getting used to the freedom that was long denied to me by rain gods in Pune and Mumbai. These dry spells lasted for almost 6 years; however the weather has significantly changed over the last 4 years.

The rains made their entry into Delhi in 2006 and slowly over a period of time the so called ‘occasional shower season’ has matured to a full fledged ‘rainy season’ in Delhi. The human mind is intrinsically averse to change, as I got accustomed to a very dry Delhi, the heavens open up and its raining everywhere. Apparently Aug 10, has been the wettest August in 15 years and there have been only 7 such spells in the last 110 years in Delhi. That’s some statistics now.

The few questions that come to my mind are, what has caused this change? For once are the proponents of global warming right. Is the weather really taking a drastic turn, not sure if its for the good or worse. This article on the NASA site (http://www.nasa.gov/worldbook/global_warming_worldbook.html) reports that over the past 100 and next 100 years together, the overall temperature of earth would have gone up by about 10.4 degrees ! Now that’s a scary thought, the only comforting factor is that I won’t live a 100 years to see that temperature rise. When we look back the winter of 2009-10 in Delhi was more severe than the years before, the summer was equally unbearable and now the excessive rains. Is this nature’s way of warning us that ‘all is not well’. But frankly are any of us listening or seeing these obvious changes. The Delhi government had done its bit a couple of years back by being the only state in India to implement CNG for 100% commercial vehicles like state busses, taxis and autos. Polluting industries have been asked to move out of Delhi to its outskirts. The quality of air has improved marginally but frankly like a friend mentioned a few days back after her trip to New York. You wake up with a much clearer head in New York as compared to Delhi. How many of us have woken u to realize that you do not feel as fresh commensurate to the number of hours you have clocked in the bed.

A few years back I used to wonder how someone retiring from his or her job can decide to settle in the faraway hills or a remote beach location. I had decided I would stay in the hustle and bustle of the city and be in the middle of all the action. But 10 years of stay in Delhi and I have concluded, no more cities for me as and when I retire. It’s going to be an idyllic location, where the air is pure, the sky is clear and there is no smog between me and nature. This brings back memories of ‘Jamaica Farewell’ by Harry Belafonte;

‘Down the bay where the nights are gay,
And the sun shines daily on the mountain top
I took a trip on a sailing ship
And when I reached Jamaica I made a stop’

It’s a race against time. First we were all in villages, then we created cities and then moved to cities for better jobs, now the cities get polluted and we are rushing back to villages. Its only a matter of time before the construction industry extends its claws to every village in sight. I sadly wonder would there be any Jamaica left on earth for any of us to stop?

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Choose to Live Life in Sheer Bliss

Consider the image of any regular person living this planet. Their life is their family, their work, their dreams, and above all their worries. One sees people proudly proclaiming, that they have a thinking mind, which is generating thoughts by the second. But the question you need to ask yourself is, are you generating these thoughts or is your mind generating them. Many of us fail to distinguish the subtle difference between who “you” are and who “your mind” is. The first sign of caution is when you fail to carry out this distinction.


Do you identify with any of the following?
• My mind always generates a variety of thoughts.
• Most of these thoughts are involuntary and beyond my control.
• Some of them are good and some bad both generated due to the environment external to me.
• While I enjoy and nurture the good thoughts, the bad thoughts bog me down and I am unable to do anything about it until they get resolved or die down themselves.

If the answer to majority of the above is a yes, then “you” are a slave of your thoughts or better said your thoughts have complete control over you and has the capability to govern your mood. Remember incoherent collection of thoughts in your mind is not a symbol of a thinking mind. It’s a symbol of an uncontrolled mind. Let’s take an example of your hand. It does not continue moving when you have finished bowling a cricket ball or when you finish waving goodbye to your friend where as your hand stops moving once these activities complete. The brain controls this activity. But who controls the activities of the mind. Who would stop the mind from uncontrolled thinking? That’s what we are trying to achieve here.
So the question remains how do I free myself from this rut of uncontrolled thinking?

Here are some three simple tips that worked for me.

1. The first step is to be aware that you are separate from your mind. The best way to do this is to constantly put yourself into a habit of watching what your mind is doing. Initially it may sound a bit weird and even foolish. We have many occasions that can be used to build this habit, our most hated moments, when we are driving alone, driving and stuck in traffic jams, waiting for a friend or acquaintance, waiting at airports, bus stands or railway stations, long winding travels, the possibilities are enormous. In case these locales are too disturbing sit in a quiet room and watch your mind.

2. Once you are aware what the mind is doing, the next step is to pay attention to the contents of what the mind is processing. This step is distinct from the first step which just concentrates on watching the actions of the mind. Be aware of each thought as they come in, watch as they linger on and multiply, watch them as they die down or surge. At every stage of this step you should be aware of all the thoughts that are crossing your mind

3. Now that you are aware of all these thoughts, start off by segregating the good and bad thoughts. The interesting part is that there are no good or bad thoughts. It’s our reaction to each thought that makes it good or bad. For a human mind if the reaction to a particular thought makes us happy then it’s a good thought and if it makes us sad then it’s a bad thought. For the ease of writing and understanding, let’s still call these as good or bad thoughts. We obviously don’t want to remove good thoughts from our mind, as for the bad thoughts there are 2 ways to work around them.

a. One way is to watch the thought that invokes a sad reaction within you. Be aware of that thought, identify with it, watch it grow and fall. The power of this process is that the moment you become aware of a thought that makes you sad, and watch its rise and ebb, it starts getting weak. If you are able to do this replace this thought with a good thought, now that’s your key to bliss.

b. The second way and one that worked for me, is to write down that thought which invokes a bad reaction within you. The act of simply writing down this thought makes it weak. The good part of the writing process is that you need not replace the bad thought with a good one. The moment you write the precise thought, it vanishes. In short the moment you associate with a bad thought either by watching it intensely or by writing it , the thought dies off.

By consistently practicing these 3 steps you can rid yourself of what we call “persistent worrying” and so called uncontrolled thinking of the mind. With time we would be able to gain mastery over our minds and eventually replace the uncontrolled thinking of the mind with a free thinking mind. A free thinking mind, constantly searches for thoughts that depress us, and replaces such thoughts with nice and pleasant thoughts , leading to a an enriched life of sheer bliss.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

Transformation from Human to Nerd - Is the Internet robbing us of our Social Life?

In the days of the yore we used to proudly display a letter from our loved ones. The greatest moment was to receive the letter and the next best to read it. The advent of the internet opened immense possibilities and a whole new generation of entrepreneurs emerged who made their millions from the internet. I restrict my discussion on this article to the social change brought about by internet.
From the simple e-mail to instant messaging to social networking sites to use of all these on mobile platforms, the social internet threatens to rob us of our real life social fabric. A typical teenager of today is suave about handling his or her email accounts, manages multiple social networking sites, measures their success by the number of friends they have online , buy movies and songs online and end up spending more and more time online. Slowly this “virus” has crept on from the youth to all age groups and now the intrusion is almost complete. The use of the word “crept” is deliberate, as it’s just a period of time when you transform from being a normal human to a nerd typing away vigorously at your keyboard. I’m reminded of the 1986 Hollywood flick "The Fly" starring Jeff Goldblum and Geena Davis. He is an eccentric scientist working on 'teleporting', a means of transporting objects through space. Geena Davis, a magazine writer decides find out more about his work. They start an affair, but Jeff believes she is still seeing her former lover. In a fit of rage he tries to transport himself, and his genes get caught up with a fly that gets into the machine. Slowly Jeff takes on the features of an insect, resulting in him slowly transforming into a huge fly.
You know you are transforming from a human to a nerd when, your personal letters already replaced by emails have now been replaced by social networking posts. Its cooler to hang out with friends on Twitter or FaceBook than to meet and chat up over cups of coffee, it’s easier to catch your favorite movie online rather than watch it with friends at a movie theatre. You’d play online games rather than a game of rugby or cricket with your friends. You rather would post a happy birthday post on FaceBook than post a card, would rather SMS a Christmas or New Year greeting than send a card. The good old photo albums have been replaced with Flickr or Picasa. Would you rather prefer a video conference with friends on Skype than meet them over an evening drink. Is the internet stealing a major portion of your family time? You claim to be spending quality time with your family, while in reality you are at home surfing away on the internet, assuming that mere presence at home spells quality. Do your spouse and you wish each other happy birthdays and anniversaries on Twitter or FaceBook? Whether you like it or not the internet is pushing deep into our lives, ripping apart every social norm as it penetrates deeper and its beyond our control. Well the transformation has begun for many and almost complete for the rest.
The latest internet usage statistics of world internet users show that almost 26% of the world population is on the internet of which North America has a 75% penetration, closely followed by Australia with 60% and India with just 7% penetration with a 380% growth to those figures over the past 10 years. At this rate we should be inching very close to the 100% mark over the next decade. So is that a sign to be happy or should it set alarm bells ringing for the social fabric of the world?
One of my mentors once told me about office etiquettes, if possible meet the person, next try to call him/her, next drop an SMS and if nothing works e-mail them. You’ll build great relationships and your work gets done smoothly. The same applies to your social life too. Spend time with your families, void of electronic media, take your son for a walk or go sporting with him, catch up with your daughters dancing classes, meet your friends over a drink or go cycling / trekking with them. Meet your dad/mom often (if you stay away), or talk to them often. Be around for their birthdays and anniversaries. We’ve all heard it’s a fast paced life and we got to catch up. Internet may be a means but not the end. We got to stop by and admire the flowers and if possible smell them too. The save trees campaign is in the right direction but the point is we need to use our online tools in moderation to strengthen our social footprint. Use the internet to boost your relationships, but remember nothing should encroach and replace “the real thing” not in the least by the “virtual”. Ironically the word “virtual” comes from the Latin word “Virtus Virtue” meaning : Possessed of certain physical virtues or capabilities. The real life is that which can be seen, felt, breathed, spoken to and heard and virtual is nothing but that, ”virtual” which Encarta dictionary defines as “hypothetical”.
So my friends go get a life………

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Healing and Health Benefits of Solo Travel

Indians as a rule are used to travelling with their families; hence the idea of a solo traveler seems quite extreme to say the least. While the rest of the world has been enjoying the benefits of travelling solo, Indians are yet to come to terms with why someone would want to undertake a solo travel. Granted that we as a nation are obsessed with an intense affinity towards our families and this does trickle into our travel plans which is great, a happy family holiday leads to great bonding. But it is good for the mind and soul for one to travel alone at least occasionally.


Having personally undertaken 2 backpacking trips in India, I am a firm believer that one solo trip in a year is healing and can earn you rich health benefits. The standard benefits associated with solo travel are a great sense of freedom, ability to meet new people (which you would not like to do during a family outing), decide your own schedule, (decide what you would see and for how long), spend as much money as you feel like, the list is endless. There are numerous cons associated with solo travel. The loneliness can get to you, causing you to put your entire journey at risk by deciding to terminate it before you complete your route. You are responsible for your own safety so need to be extra cautious, can’t think of telling someone to watch your back. You need to plan your baggage and travel light, its you after all who has to manage and carry your baggage. Safety of your baggage is your responsibility, so letting it down for even a few moments may turn out to be disastrous. Despite all the cons the health and soul healing benefits of solo travel does not stop to intrigue the human mind. Many creative personalities like painters, poets, writers etc have known to take off to a solitary location where they found their creative juices flowing better.

One of the greatest gains from solo travel is your ability to absorb and retain what you see and hear. This is important, because travelling with a partner can cause you to spend time talking or more correctly acknowledging his/her presence around. Another key healer is it allows you to introspect on your life, on what has happened till date, what were the hits and misses in life. Some of the greatest ideas have occurred to me when I was alone, away travelling (on work mostly). Like Jim Morison of Doors said in one of his songs “People are strange when you’re a stranger, Faces look ugly when you’re alone”. When alone mind concocts strange ideas and some of them so oblique bordering on madness. But many of these ideas can be converted to reality and can bring huge benefits to our lives, be it work, business ideas or our relationships with friends, family, colleagues etc. Strangely these ideas only crop up when the mind is left alone and best when you’re travelling alone. Also a solo travel helps purge ones thoughts , helps better mind control and acts as a great de-stresser.

Human beings are social animals but in todays stressful times, it is important to take time off for yourself and to spend it alone so as to commence a journey of self-discovery. The best way to do this is to undertake a solo travel to an unknown destination for an unknown period.

Au revior ………

Monday, February 15, 2010

Shah Rukh Khan and Shiv Sena - Does Indian Politics and “Anything” Go Together

Actor Shah Rukh Khan’s comments on Pakistani players in IPL brings out a key issue that may have been spoken innumerable times but is reaching no where as far as a solution is concerned. The question “Can we mix politics with anything at all” be it sports, films, education etc. No answers yet. But one thing for sure, while it would be perfectly legal and acceptable for politicians to step into external domains like sports, films, education etc. the converse has time and again proved detrimental for the concerned people.

Maharashtra is abound with stories where film directors had to change acts/dialogues in films or had to apologize to the political lords of that locality to keep them appeased and more than anything to get their films to release/run in that city. Karan Johar had to apologize to Shiv Sena for referring to Mumbai as Bombay in “Wake up Sid”. Post Shah Rukh’s statement on Pakistani players for IPL, Uddhav Thackeray of Shiv Sena even went to the extent of telling him to “Stick to his profession and not dabble in other issues”. Shah Rukh reportedly apologized to Karan Johar and Kajol for ruining the prospects of MNIK, but he refused to apologize to the Shiv Sena, right or wrong? Not sure. First he makes statements which do not help anyone, definitely did not help get more Pakistani players into IPL and second it was made much after the auction so seemed more like a lip service and more a publicity stunt gone bad than anything else. He would definitely have made a difference had he spoken and more important acted much before the auction. Cricketer Sachin Tendulkar did a similar act when he innocently spoke of being an Indian first and then a Maharashtrian. Mukesh Ambani of Reliance spoke about Mumbai belonging to all of India, which again did not go well with the Maratha sons-of-the-soil.

While one could take the risk of mentioning that what the Shiv Sena is doing is incorrect, it would be perfectly in order to question the stars (read actors, sports personalities etc) of today as to what is the need for them to make politicized statements which may seem to come straight from their heart but has more damaging repercussions for the public in general. For example does Shah Rukh think making such statements would change anything? Does he have the wherewith all for bringing about the relevant change. Does Sachin think he can stop the political parties of Maharashtra from politicizing any and every issue? Don’t think so. These statements are issued by the stars in the wake of various questions from journalists who are on the lookout for spicy answers, so that they can gain publicity out of such quotes.

The political parties on the other hand are always on the look out for issues which can bring them back to public memory, which is fickle and volatile. Such statements help in keeping the party publicity machines alive and get a work hungry party worker to deliver on party goals. Internally the political parties would be gleefully lapping up such comments which give them moments of fleeting publicity. Politics is a wicked game of rising to the fore at the cost of another and by issuing dramatic statements our stars are just fueling this need. However much one hates to say this, but can’t but agree more with Uddhav Thackeray’s advise that one should stick to ones profession and not dabble in “other” issues. Do so only if you feel you have the power to make a change.

As for MNIK it turned out to be the number five movie worldwide with a $14. 2 million weekend gross.

Regards

Pradeep Eledath